Man with Nine Wives Creates ‘Sex Rota’ to Keep All Women Happy
Brazilian polygamist Arthur O Urso tried to manage intimacy with nine wives using a strict “sex rota,” but the schedule quickly turned chaotic. From stress and jealousy to unexpected drama, discover how the harem’s bedroom timetable exploded and what happened when Arthur ditched the plan for natural passion.
Imagine having nine wives, all wanting the same amount of attention in the bedroom. Sounds crazy, right? For Brazilian polygamist Arthur O Urso, it quickly became a big mess. Arthur, who calls himself the king of a nine-wife group, tried to make a sex rota—a strict schedule to make sure each wife got her turn. But what seemed like a smart plan soon turned into confusion, stress, and funny chaos.
Arthur isn’t your ordinary guy. The chiseled Brazilian model made headlines in July 2021 with a mass wedding in a São Paulo Catholic church, marrying Luana Kazaki and eight other women. Legally, it doesn’t count—polygamy is illegal in Brazil—but the ceremony symbolized a protest against monogamy. Arthur calls it a celebration of polyamory and free love. Today, the group lives together in São Paulo, sharing their adult adventures on OnlyFans, while raising one child and trying to maintain the passion for all nine wives.

The Infamous Sex Rota
With nine wives, how do you keep everyone happy? Arthur turned to the sex rota, a rotating schedule inspired by sex experts at Erobella. Each wife had a set “slot” for intimate time, ensuring no one felt left out.
“They all want to fulfill my sexuality at any cost,” Arthur admitted. “Our sex life is fun and pleasurable… they are happy to make it their goal.”
The plan: one wife per night or slot, no favorites, pure organized pleasure. On paper, it seemed perfect—a spreadsheet-fueled system for bedroom equity.
Reality Hits Hard
But reality wasn’t so simple. Arthur explained the stress and problems that came with the schedule:
• Following a timetable made intimacy feel forced, not natural.
• He often found himself thinking of one wife while being with another.
• The structure drained spontaneity, making passionate moments feel mechanical.
By 2022, Arthur ditched the rota and went with “let it flow naturally.” Result? Sex life improved, attention and affection were easier to give, and the pressure was gone.
“The sex is now better than ever. It doesn’t take long to get attention or affection when you have that many wives,” he said.
Jealousy and Everyday Challenges
Managing nine wives isn’t just about sex—it’s about attention, gifts, and fairness. Arthur shared:
• Jealousy often comes from gifts, not intimacy.
• Daily life is a balancing act of love, attention, and sex.
• One wife, Agatha, left the harem in 2024, filing for divorce because of the chaos.
The remaining eight continue to live together, sharing intimate content for OnlyFans subscribers.
Media Buzz
The story has caught global attention:
• New York Post 2022: “Man with 9 wives has ‘sex schedule’ to ‘fulfill my sexuality.’”
• Mirror 2024: Reports problems with the rota.
• Social media debates the feasibility of polyamory. Users joke:
“A man with n wives can only give 1/n of himself—math don’t lie.”
The buzz reflects a growing interest in non-monogamous relationships. Studies show polyamory and multiple-partner setups have increased 20% since the pandemic.
Arthur’s story proves that mega-harems are not easy, even if they seem like a fantasy. Each wife has a different personality, style, and desire.
“It’s unique to experience everything collectively. They are all very different in bed,” Arthur said.
Brazil’s sunny climate and free-spirited culture provide the backdrop for this experiment in love, lust, and chaos. Curious readers can follow their OnlyFans adventures or even try to imagine handling their own “quota-quandary.”
In the game of love, when you have nine wives, you either master the rota or let passion rule wild.
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